Bi or not Bi: round 2

So I've been thinking.  It seems that there are a number of males contacting us which have profiles which state 'straight' yet claim to have bi-tendencies or to even to be bisexual when they contact us.  This has made me want to do some follow up.  

When these men were questioned about the discrepancies in their profile they simple stated that they got more responses from couples and women if their profile stated straight.  I found this interesting.  

In fact I found it interesting that someone may state, "I am not bi in anyway But...."  I'm not going to freak out because you grasped or stroked my cock while she is down on me or to guide it into position of me playing with your better half. Hell I might even do that." According to Kinsey sexuality ranges in varying degrees from heterosexual to homosexual.  Reading the works of other researchers I think it is safe to say that someone who could enjoy having their genitalia grasped by someone of the same sex or would grasp the genitalia of someone of the same sex has some  non-heterosexual tendencies.  As such would be considered NOT fully heterosexual, and therefore is in the bi-spectrum.  

Kinsey and others have found that when a proper study is conducted it results in finding more men than women having had same-sex experiences/desires. 
"Kinsey addresses that the result is contrary to reports that women have more homosexual leanings than men. He poses that such reports are due to the "wishful thinking on the part of such heterosexual males."

I think that what I have found in the sexual research and certainly by my own experience is that men have a problem with simple saying what they like, when it comes to same-sex expression.  

A friend recently wrote to me, "I'm of the mindset that physical pleasure can be received and given by anyone to anyone with an open mind."  Maybe men simply do not have as open a mind as women.

Now, please do not take this as me saying all men are bi-something, just that we could use a whole lot more honesty on some of the profiles.  Honesty, a better way in just about anything.   

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