We all know there are many pretenders out there when it comes to cuckolding. Much emphasis has been placed upon those people who pretend to be cucks. We call them wannabes, and I call them "wucks" (wannabe cuck). Little has been said, however, about the myths and fantasies surrounding our every-benevolent male - the bull.
I'm going to dispell a few things regarding the grand old lover of of your wife. Let's address these myths in numerical order.
Myth #1
All bulls are the aggressive, dominant, rich, self-serving a**holes I read about in alt.sex.stories.cuckold.
No, they aren't. In fact, that combination is the exception and not very desireable. A "bull" who has all of those extreme traits propagated by these stories on websites and newsgroups would be irritating at best, and dangerous at worst. Self-serving assholes generally aren't welcomed anywhere except in fantasy cuckold stories.
Don't believe me? Try hanging out with someone like that. Someone so self-absorbed that they hear nothing but the sound of their own dick ticking.
Myth #2
A bull sees a cuckold as lesser than him.
Untrue. A TRUE bull, in my estimation, sees the cuckold as his equal - a person who has chosen to be submissive and respects that decision. The bull's behaviour is really a playful ACT he employs in order to benefit ALL parties desires. This is quite different from the self-serving a**hole we mentioned above, right?
In other words, the bull has INTEGRITY, and realises that the playful times with wifey benefit EVERYONE.
Myth #3
The bull "owns" the wife.
Perhaps this shouldn't be a myth, but only a half-truth. This all depends on the circumstances, but as a general rule, the ONLY time the bull "owns" the wife is when they are IN BED TOGETHER. Otherwise, her body is hers, and her emotions are her husband's or boyfriend's. There are exceptions to this "ownership" idea, however. I will write more on this later.
Myth #4
The bull is a muscular, "go get 'em" type that doesn't take shit from anyone.
In tandem with Myth #1, this is just idealized internet fantasy nonsense. Many bulls are not your prime Adonis, nor do they always openly take charge or lead the interaction. The interaction is mutual. A bull who "doesn't take ORDERS from anyone" isn't a bull - he's just clueless and mindlessly selfish.
If I'm having fun with a wife and one of them doesn't like what I'm doing, I will STOP immediately and we will sort it out and move on. A true bull is a MAN who may be in charge, but is open to feedback, puts his ego aside. He is the benevolent captain.
