Hi,having problems with the prostate gland,not because of the problem itself(not a big deal) but the effects it causes in most men.
They think that having that problem,will "shut them down" in the sexual life.
I cannot tell for others,,but in my case,i can say it's not bad at all.
There are treatments and medicines to avoid the prostate to grow bigger,and keep it at bay..
I have had this problem for about sizteen years
But i had to admit,,one of the medicines for BPH(Terazosin) has helped me in keeping hard erections when i needed it most,jumm...
On the contrary,there's another medicine(Finasteride) that has bad side effects,,,"retroglade ejaculations",abnormal ejaculations with little or no sperm coming out., sensations when having an orgasm...
But my point is,,,,you can live a normal life if you have a treatment for your problem....