First in my list of Guilty Pleasures: Deep Conversations. // I think this is the very crucial step for some of us when talking to a potential partner, either in bed or in life. I know that some people who do not like talking in general or is too shy to even talk about likes and dislikes first and therefore proceeds into action. I think that's not fun. I mean after the fun in bed, what happens, you proceed to smoke, get dressed, say goodbye then the interaction is killed. Fun is where you let your intimacy and curiousness on your partner get wild, thinking if does she like the sunrise and the sunset, thinking if the music you played on your phone matches with her interests, thinking if she feels the same way you feel as to when you see cute puppies or butterflies or even thinking if you feel the same way about life and death together. A plus side is you can get to help your partner in many ways possible, be it saying to you her heavy burdens, opening up a conversation which she wants you to be involved, asking for advice and such. Deep conversations like this does help engage every nook and cranny of a guy's/gal's consciousness of what's happening on the bed and on their minds. It's like the interaction of two people's soul while their bodies are busy mingling with each other. Well, it may also help retain relations after you did it. 😉 at least there's a little something of you that was taken by your partner even if there are no strings attached. - end -
