When we look at our favorite scene, maybe the one above, maybe something far different, who do we see? Do we see ourselves as being held over a knee and getting spanked? Or are we delivering the spanking?
Do we even identify with the sex of either party? I'm a guy, yet I identify with the girl getting walloped. Maybe I just don't like seeing a guy in my fantasy.
Maybe I really would like to be a girl. Maybe.
Thoughts, people?
