If you read our previous blog post, you will know we are starting out and virgins as such. In this taboo world it's not like many of us can just go and chat to our mates about it like other things so its hard to talk with anyone about experiences etc. We are guessing that like a relationship you may get good or bad experiences but the online world can mean people are not who they say they are. So for newbs like us it's good to know pitfalls. One tip we were given is if you talk and think its goijg somewhere, ask the couple or person for 2 different face photos of them holding something random from around the house you specify as it proves they are real before you exchange any details to go further (If you want to be sure).
Anyway, we are looking for that next step and chatted with some lovely people. For us, the challenge has been to not make it formal as it adds pressure and takes a bit of the spontenaity out. However, we are realistic so know planning is involved. To give context our fantasy is to be out and just meet randomly and if the night goes further then fantastic but if not it's a great night. Anyone got any experiences or tips on this or reassurances that the meets live up to fantasy. Thanks all x
