Over the next few weeks I'll be blogging intermittently about my thoughts on sex, the human mind, relationships and hedgehogs.
As far as I am concerned kink is all about pleasure. If you enjoy something, do it. If you don't, stop. That's why I'm not into causing pain or humiliation, or doing anything stomach-churning.
There are subs that enjoy a spanking, and those that don't. If someone does then I'll only use my hand unless they really want more. It's not about the pain, it's about the relationship, the sub willingly giving herself to me and presenting her posterior as a sort of pink love token. However what I will do is turn it into a ritual: kneel, handcuffs on, over my knee, stroke and fondle the target area, skirt up, tights and panties down, very gentle touch to enhance her sensitivity, then begin.
In a sense being a dom is putting on a one person performance for the pleasure of the sub, and being a sub is a mirror of that.
Hedgehogs? The problem is that they are attracted by sex hormones, which makes doing it outdoors in the countryside very dangerous.
