We are your average busy couple managing life and love each other very much. After having that initial nerve wracking conversation where we opened up (after a few drinks) and decided to take the plunge as a couple, here we are. For us we were both nervous about talking openly because what if one person wanted more than the other or had a change of heart. A great honest night long chat really helped us know where we stood. Followed by great sex lol. Having been together for years and happily married this was a world we talked about and fantasized about but it turns out knew little about. Naive maybe? Firstly our Google took a bashing looking up what words meant activities. We are only a short bit into our journey where we have braved chatting online but what has worked for us is talking honestly and openly about what we want, fancy, our maybe and are a no go. So far it has brought us closer which has been amazing. We have enjoyed chatting to some lovely genuine people. Because of our life situation we are not always available but it's been nice meeting similar people in similar situations that understand. Our next venture is to share pic or web cam and possibly meet. The challenge is for us that we love being in the moment rather than something planned. Anyone else faced this?
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1:26 pm Monday, 20th August, 2018
Hi small steps take your time and you will enjoy what you do drinking games seem to work for us good luck xx |
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3:12 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018
Your posts reads very familiar, trust me as long as you set your boundaries then you will be cool. We would be Happy to helping xxx |
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3:13 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018
Happy to helping, jaysus I hate predictive text x |
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9:01 pm Saturday, 1st September, 2018
Really relate to this post we literally just had this same conversation alot of people on here have messaged us straight away with the "wanna meet". We just wanna chat, pic swap and maybe meet just go with the flow and see what happens. |
