I am submissive by nature but I have passive aggressive tendencies which I want trained out of me by my mistress... I am a normal fun loving guy in vanilla activities which are wide and varied which I think is more fun to learn about on the fly... I don't seek immediate sessions... sm has been described as sexual magic... which is why I don't seek the pay to play attitude of a financial dominatrix. Not that every session ends with sex but an active sex life is definitely desired not just the bondage and discipline... although there are many types of fetish that hold sex as the not allowed thing like chastity and tease and denial which I wouldn't mind pursuing at times... the conditioning of corporal punishment and sexual release so corporal punishment alone brings the feelings of sexual release are needed which a pay dominatrix does not give... I don't want to be a swinger or traded partner... it holds no interest to me... I don't like the idea of joining a couple on general principle... I understand the couples need to add spice to their relationship just I am not a good spice to add... if you are one of those women that isn't after the almighty dollar but want a real vanilla and bdsm relationship I am your submissive
