Just My Daily Musing

Hi. I remember reading a blog somewhere here sharing some fails on dates. I do have some and this is from the previous site/s I’ve been. I also want to share some insights- just MY musings

disclaimer: this is non-fiction 🙂

I don’t get guys who say NSA. Totally cool with it, if you say so. Some do want a no-commitment lifestyle or not having someone very ‘clingy’. Here’s the thing, When the girl sends a message, if way too many - it is too sweet for you and if the girl did not send messages too often- way too cold.. if the girl says things YOU think are too nice, you thought she is out for a ring on her finger. .. if the girl is too frank- you will say she is too bold. Next time you want NSA- or something else, bring a detailed contract 🙂


I did meet this guy who is too good looking in the picture. We decided to meet at this coffee shop to ‘chat’. When I got there, I waited for almost half an hour for my ‘date’ to show up.. not knowing he was already there just silently looking at me from afar and checking all my angles and features.. Why I know this- because I noticed him doing that. I asked him why the wait- he told me that he wants to check the prospect before he approaches.. Well, since he liked what he sees and I don’t like what he did, I excused myself politely and left.. Next time bring a binocular and do it in stealth mode.

Again, another ‘date’. This guy arrived on time and really nice.. for the first- three minutes. Until the part came when he told me all his accomplishments, his trips abroad, the money he spent in a day, his hobbies, his staff (people mind you), his medals and trophies, his pad (not paper) while doing phone calls in front of me and saying ‘sorry I’m a very busy guy’.. good thing I don't get blown by too many strong winds in the room- coming from him. I thought he brought the signal number 4 strong typhoon with him...


Lunch date- I prefer to be seen in daylight 🙂.. well, everything is going great in our friendly chat until he changes the topic and decided to tell me in details what he will ****o me.. He will lick this and that, he will massage me here and there, he will put this to that- just like connect the puzzle.. he will bring me to heaven and so much more.. this while talking in a loud voice enough for two to three tables surrounding us can hear and the people giving us the wtf eye.. If I could melt in there, I wish I could.. I told him to lower his voice but still continued his litany..Guys, please action speaks louder than words.

If you want to do it in your car, maybe you can’t control yourself or be saving money... please don’t, especially in broad daylight- and your car is not even heavily tinted.. I don’t want my bum to be seen by anyone.. Go bring a black, thick cloth with you if you still want it.
I also don’t understand when some ‘foreign’ guys will just say- you are too white or not native to me ..some like ‘my girl looks better than you, Do I need to dress like a native or put some tanning lotions ( I tried, I looked like a Dalmatian after) or be like Moana and sing going back to the ocean.. and then when I speak ‘tagalog’ you will say speak English, when I speak English, you will say can you speak ‘tagalog’ or slow down.. well all of us have preferences.. You can’t please everyone, but you don’t have to be a d**k to prove it.

If you have nothing good to say- better be silent.

Everyone loves surprises.. except me.. especially when we meet and ill be looking for the missing head on the picture you sent.

Some are also not good at making an alibi. Please make it more believable and reliable.. like I am what I am in picture but upon research it is someone else’s face.. or I can’t speak now for I have tonsilitis, or there is a power interruption that’s why you can see me.. or I’m not looking for any girl right now but you posted a ‘wanted’ ad for every single day 🙂

Last, I found it a bit ironic that in other -normal sites, the guys there are a bit ruder than in here. Kudos to the guys and girls who play by the rules and making this site work amidst all odds.

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