I've been talking to someone about this and we had a little argument that is it really required to make your partner reach orgasm when you have sex. I was the one who says it's required and she was the one against it as she said that you should have fun instead on focusing on making her come.
It may be fine with other people but I always aim to make my partner come. I mean, guys can make themselves come faster than you know it while the girls are the ones that are hard to crack. Not all female comes with the same things. They may have things in common that makes em come but it's really hard to look what arouses them more.... Unless of course if they told you.
How about you? Do intend to make your partner come as well or it's okay as long as you come?
