Hi...I'm the R in the RandKandyou. It's been 6 months since my wife and I decided to try this new scene. Unfortunately, we have not been successful. Either been spammed, scammed, or catfished. I didn't realized how hard it is to find a third to join myself and my wife.
We first decided this venture while I was on official travel to California. She happened to ask me over the phone what my fantasy was - knowing full well she knew what the answer was going to be. Of course, I wasn't aware that she has always been curious of being with a woman. Now, mind you we talk about everything. All my skeletons are out in the open with my wife. The closets are wide open.
Anyways...we've been on this path of trying to meet with people. We've joined several social clubs, websites, downloaded apps, and started going out more. But, regardless of what we do it seems that we are doing something wrong or not attractive enough - at least that what it seems from my point of view. Now, I know I have a little more pounds than I should but, my wife is smoking hot - petite and beautiful. So maybe it's me - maybe it isn't.
I guess we're so new into this lifestyle that we just don't understand how to go about it. Also, neither one of us really now how to hit on a woman. I was never really good at it, even way before her. My skills always lie on the dance floor or djing. But, what I lack in verbal makes up in my motion. I don't know...I'm just chatting away. This is the actual first blog I've written - ever. I thought I'd give it a try while away on another official travel to Germany. Maybe you have some pointers.
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11:42 pm Wednesday, 13th June, 2018
Nice blog! |
