GROUP FUN - OUR EXPERIENCE

We came on this site a couple of months ago, we have been swingers for a while ! We have met with a few couples and seriously, Madras has some big problems in swinging !
We took a risk, on an invitation to a group gathering recently. We were quite surprised to find a large gathering of youngsters leading to middle age like us. We were to assemble at 11am, at a prescribed place, so we headed in that direction, planning errands enroute and to be at that place in time. Midway in that direction, we were informed of a new venue, in exactly the opposite direction. Horror of horrors !!!  So we were finally an hour late and had to catch up on the sprit of the group. Being well travelled, we have seen quite a few parties, this one was unique, because here was a group, who had come together for some fun, but yet all very inhibited and self consious, barring a few, which included us. 
Some attempts to involve everyone with some group games, were in vain, with very little participation. The group suddenly broke down in to some pairs disappearing in to  one room and locking themselves in, soon followed by a slightly larger group who went in to another room and the action began for them.
We being used to a slower paced style of group partnering, from past experience, where socialising and comfort play a very important part, we were taken aback by the speed and turn of events. We believe, group fun is a wonderful experience, when doors and fun is open and available to all, keeping in mind respect for everyone, their needs, likes and dislikes. My wife is always respected and we never loose sight of this at any point.
We found that in this group, the women were taken as pieces of flesh for the male to do as he pleases, barring a few seasoned ones, who stood up for their rights, the rest were disappointingly ready to be used as flesh.
We were uncomfortable with this point specifically, soon, excused ourselves and headed out the door. The host messaged us to post a review on their wall, I thought it inappropriate to not say anything positive about the event, so instead I am blogging with the hope that he will read our views. We love to group party and are open to the idea, only where woman,  man, couple are treated with respect and dignity and that the scantity of love making through sex is glorified and not demeaned.
If you read our blog, dear host, please do not take it negatively, as we would love to be part of your group sometime in the future, when man and woman mingle as one, where we both have the confidence, in each one of you and you in us.
Thank you for inviting us, we were honoured to be part of the event, which unfortunatelty in its present form, didn't appeal to us.
Love and peace always !!!!

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