I developed bowel cancer years ago and it destroyed my powers of an erection and ejaculation In the beginning I was able to inject myself and have a lovely erection but it was hit and miss whether it worked or not We still enjoyed sex with hands tongues and sex toys. my wife died 6 months ago and I have developed a terrible sex urge again and it is driving me crazy at the moment all I can do is wear a strap on penis until doctor finds a solution Can any body out there help me please I am desperate