This is to all single and lonely ladies. Stressed students? Busy professionals? Women in unfulfilled marriages/estranged or separated/divorced? Waiting for marriage? Recent breakup? Minor condition (physical/cosmetic) delaying marriage? Whatever be your situation, you are missing out on the pleasures of a physical relationship. Perhaps your career and/or social life is otherwise fulfilling and you have not even thought much about this loss? But believe me, the way you can enjoy a physical relationship when you are (relatively) young can never be made up later in life. You may very well end up with a fulfilling long term relationship (which is certainly ideal) many years from now, but your youthful years will have been wasted forever.
In many other cultures it is acceptable for both men and women to have casual relationships until the time they find their long term life partner. In India we are stuck with this archaic mindset (with additional double standards for women) that is often harmful. I have suffered firsthand, having been placed into a marriage unprepared since there was no other outlet for physical needs. Naturally, my marriage failed and I spent many years lonely and depressed. Now, looking back at those wasted years I am filled with regret, I will never get those years back! I certainly hope to end up with a long term life partner one day but I am not going to further waste (whatever is left of) my youth in the meantime. Please do not let this happen to you.
I am just another normal person in every other way. An educated professional working here. Intellectually sophisticated with varied interests. I am in my early 30s, fit and healthy with a charming personality. If my post strikes a chord, please feel free to contact me. If you wish to take things slowly and gradually get to know each other, that is fine. It is up to you how far you wish to take this relationship and the degree of privacy and discretion you wish to maintain. Your age, looks and background will not matter much if we click.
Even if you do not contact me but otherwise heed my lesson, I would feel that I have benefited someone! Best wishes to all!
Decent yet lascivious Male seeking elegant couple lady with a vibrant personage
