It is not wise to contact a prospect with something like, "Hi my name is Bob, let's fuck." I know it is better NOT to look like a jerk, First impressions count especially with women. Let's face it women get many solicitations and they can pick and choose. Of course guys NEVER introduce yourself with a dick picture. Women like to know that you are sane and fun. I think some men are afraid of women and come on to them with attitude to show they are not afraid----as strange as that sounds. Women want sex as much as you do, they don't want to meet an insecure wacko who could be trouble. Easy does it at first. Getting to know them---and that might mean one hour---works best. Also romance works wonders with most women.
