I seek the impossible to find
The one that has lived a loving exciting and happy D/s lovestyle for seven years or more. I seek the one that does not seek to replace the irreplaceable, but seeks to once again live and love within a healthy D/s relationship.
This one I seek should have been single and not under any form of consideration for at least one year, nor have an interest in a woman who has not yet desired them.
I am not looking for good enough and he should not be either.
This one I seek should have a solid nature and know the difference between arrogance and confidence. He should laugh a lot, from the gut, for he is filled with humor and already lives in a world surrounded by the positives in life.
He does not need me to heal his past nor lift him up for he is not a victim or a martyr, this man that is secure within himself.
This one I seek should have been quietly lurking in the background, watching with intention, seeking the one out of the many without anger or resentment but with patience and hope. This one is not a common man.
The one I seek should be 55+ - semi-retired - or retired. He leads an active life not dictated by kink but supplemented with it. He should live in Victoria Vancouver or possibly Seattle.
The one I seek lives alone, does not have a SO or romantic entanglement of any kind and is available to travel.
I seek 24/7 with an experienced lifestyler. I seek a man who is not a boy though has boyish qualities. I do not seek the body nor the wallet, I seek the mind of an intelligent man.
I seek the mind that is healthy. I seek the mind that is strong and curious, always forward thinking.
I seek the mischievous smile. I seek the one that is kind by nature and generous with his time and talents. This one often offers a hand up without the need for accolades, I could pick this man out in a room full fashion.
This one I seek should know all his deal makers and deal breakers when he approaches me, for I know mine. He should be open about his kinks and sexual needs, fetishes and long term goals.
He has the experience to cut to the chafe and leave the games for the players and those just finding their way to their deal makers and deal breakers.
This one that I seek is not desperate. He is in no hurry and will take the time to get to know the woman rather than seek a title.
I seek this man, this needle in a haystack.
I seek him because I have loved within the D/s world much as he has. Our histories will have shared commonalities, perhaps our paths are littered with many of the same circles.
I seek the mature man. I seek the one that has a passion for life. My intention at the end of the day is a 24/7 live in Female led relationship with the one who already knows the power ignited between two people loving within the walls of respect and integrity.
It is the man I seek not the kinks.
It is the human being that wears that birthday suit, not the suit, I seek. It is the nature of the man I seek, not the car parked in his driveway.
It is his stability, how he knows himself and is OK with who he is that I seek. The drama free man, loving life, still full from a wonderful D/s lovestyle that he remembers with a smile that I can be happy to see in his eyes.
