Impulsive maybe the common theme for men. I've been impulsive. I just wanted to experience this kind of lifestyle. It's exciting and i think it;s healthy. I've met one from here. It's really hard to have meet ups when you are far from where the action is. But for me, it's really a great experience having to share moments of lust with a person aside from my partner. I really lucky to have met women who are not just into hookups but they also seek companionship, friendship and sharing moments together. Conversation makes both of you comfortable before the deed. No strings attached, just pure fun and play and mutual respect. We, who are in this lifestyle don't need to be ridiculed. We just want to explore. Hopefully I can meet more same minded. Keep Swinging while battery still lasts.