I have lately joined over a dozen dating agencies or personals sites and rarely get any further than recording the most basic of information before deleting the account. I'm not a prude, I'm not narrow-minded, I'm not a bigot, but I have limits.
Most of the guys I've contacted on these sites have had one of 3 responses:-
1. absolutely no response at all - the most common; I think they get drunk one night and sign up thinking it's a great laugh!
2. one message then nothing - these are the closet gay guys who think they can still call themselves straight if their boyfriend wears a dress and who immediately lose interest when they find out that I'm a girl
3. unsolicited demands for photos - I am a lonely woman who is looking for a man to share my life with, not a porno wannabe - buy a f*@king magazine you cheapskate bawbag!
I like men. My dad is one and he is brilliant. I also like sleeping with men (not my dad, obviously!), but I'm having to re-examine my desire to stay in Scotland because of this. And I don't like that!
I don't know why. I am wary of making any first move because I am allergic to transphobia. Maybe all the Scottish members are gay? Maybe they're all scared? Maybe it's because they've read my blog and know that I'm crazy? Who knows? Not I!
