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CONSERVATIVE THINKING ON SEX

8:16 am Saturday, 3rd February, 2018

Recently we have swapped a couple after exchanging lengthy chat, two three casual meets and finally agreed for same room fun. On that day the guy had put a condition whatever you want to do, you do it, except penetration!!!! and he too will not penetrate my wife!!!!. It was perplexing for us. He explained they love each other very much and wanted to keep it for them!!!! We said ok and started with hugging, kissing, massaging, oral sex and finger fucking too!!!. All four were on all time high and desperate to have orgasm. I said at least you penetrate my wife she is longing for your dick. His lady was also desperately wanted something inside her but looking at him sheepishly. We tried to explain to the guy nothing wrong in that, but failed. Even she and my wife took our dicks and stroked till we dropped!! The session completed with unsatisfied sex. Both me and my wife felt, it was insult to sex and pity on them. Lot of misunderstanding exists on sexual activities among our conservative society. Sex is divine. Once it enters your mind you started having sex!!The mere thought of it makes you hormonal rush in your body. Your body parts like lips, neck, nose, ear lobe, nipples, vagina, clitoris, anus, penis have nodes which gives lot pleasure by touching, hugging, pressing, rubbing etc., So, why are you  depriving your penis and vagina the most pleasurable act by not inserting inside. By doing this it is an insult to sex god!! We do agree some aversion may happen due to pain inflicting acts like anal sex, biting, pinching, scratching and spatting. Everybody may not like this. Our point is don't deprive the most enjoyable part of the sexual acts for the sake of loyalty unless you have a valid reasons like disease or something . The true understanding between a husband and wife is to derive happiness from your partner's happiness. Give pleasure rather than taking. Purity of your wife should not be judged by her vagina it should be measured from her soul which always beating for your happiness. If she takes one or two dicks inside her vagina and enjoyed sex, does not mean she has lost her purity and she is not loyal to you. So please come out of the shell and enjoy the life, do the sexual acts happily which gives pleasure. Remove those conservative thoughts from your mind. Establish proper communication with your wife by saying and encouraging her whatever you like you go ahead and do it, the things you don't like inform before you start. I ask my trustworthy couple to take care of my wife and indulge in sexual activities when i am away from her. Similarly, she encourages me to find a partner in my new place and have sex, and this is called true love. Hence, sex has to happen spontaneously, it is a simple act don't put too much burden on it by your ill conceived myths which does not exists, Our point is spread your wings and enjoy the life guys. 



Comments
11:47 am Saturday, 3rd February, 2018

I liked your point of view expressed in this blog but failed to understand one thing - why didn't you put your own dick inside your wife and satisfied her as well as yourself at the  point of time when both craved for penetration ? Same applies to the other couple also. 

12:24 pm Saturday, 3rd February, 2018

Very true words

2:13 pm Saturday, 3rd February, 2018

Bravo! Bravo! Well said. Your narration was excellent and romantic. Your respect for your woman is commendable. You've given a new dimension for swinging.  We would like to connect with you in the future. Very raunchy pictures  by the way.👌👌

3:19 am Sunday, 4th February, 2018

Very True

3:37 am Sunday, 4th February, 2018

As a couple they can have their own boundaries set and abide by it during play. The only weird thing is if female is ready to push the boundaries which normally is not the case then ideally as a man to satisfy her is his sole responsibility. Doesn’t make difference even if she is satisfied by other male swinger and especially if she wishes so. 
Females do push boundaries and gel with third person once they sense being secure and comfortable to take it to next level. They are in better place to judge most of the time and I would respect her feelings. In short end of your meet should be a true foursome with each other’s partner to achieve nirvana sexually.But that’s because point of view others might defer.

9:08 am Sunday, 4th February, 2018

I agree with you, it does happen with inexperienced couples. He thinks the ladies vagina is his property. 

5:03 pm Sunday, 4th February, 2018

nice explanation. it is all in mindset of some cpls. and are rigid onthat. cant blame in this love spreading lifestyle.  best thing is to choose cpls who matches your wavelengths. we also met one cpl who was  ready for full swap before the meet. then later they could do only srsp

5:44 am Monday, 5th February, 2018

Well explained....... but many times it take time to understand the things one by one.  One more thing is indicative here that the Guy had never sex other than his wife. This may be because he loves his wife and don't want to do it. This is of course a very rare case. So here to accept the things by the other Guy is not so easy instantly. May be over the time he will accept.

7:19 am Tuesday, 6th February, 2018


Every pair in the world of the kingdom of nature, will, if you observe have multiple partners in their life time. Our very own history, explicitly shown on our ancient temple walls, show us this. The worship of the SL in all temples, is a manifestation of the process of giving birth to life. A couple, in marriage, with laws completely against our nature, destroy relationships, based on power, ego, expectations and taking things for granted.

In the South of India, especially women are still made to believe that their place in this world, is to cook, produce children and live for the husband and provide for the family. These very same families, will be usually be seen eating a pizza, a burger fryums, etc.....all western junk, jeans instead of a comfortable Indian attire, which is so perfect for our climate as against jeans and dry fits. While I know that there are crimes committed all over the world, there are less crimes of sexual nature in the west, simply because it's open and encouraged. Sweden and Denmark, are perfect examples of peace, quiet, happiness and progress. They are what our society was up to the 15th. century.

With our phobia's and the way we are brought up to believe it is our duty to be married, produce and then ensure that they are educated somehow and then employed, we have lost the plot that we should love, respect and encourage each other to seek and find enjoyment. 

Having said this, I completely agree with you R, intercourse is but the finality of pleasure you seek for your partner, lover, friend, guide, philosopher and mate! When it is reduced to penetration, it just shows how small one is mentally and how little respect he has for his mate and that while they enjoy everything heshe gets very agitated or insecure when it comes to this point. such people are usually cold, not at ease socially and just want to be in the lifestyle for some perverted reason, other than for the right reasons, which is mind over matter.

A long response, my apologies, but we know you and you us and the wave length is in symmetry. Love and peace always - P & J 

12:00 pm Wednesday, 7th February, 2018

Liked the article

5:20 pm Wednesday, 7th February, 2018

your words are Very true

3:29 pm Saturday, 10th February, 2018

According to me, it's all about mood ( present senses) and perceptions ( once choice)

3:29 pm Saturday, 10th February, 2018

According to me, it's all about mood ( present senses) and perceptions ( once choice)

6:23 am Wednesday, 14th February, 2018

I agree on your points, even we encourage and enjoyed to each other in this act. As per my wf if we have think about the fun then it does not matter whether it is your huby or boy friends. 

4:18 am Thursday, 22nd February, 2018

Its nice presentation dears, as per your view it may be irritating what he did but be patient to move to next level. all are not may be in same frequency. we found that you have been ignited by the fore play and exhibitionism 

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