Not easy to find what you are looking for, right? Sure, there are lots interested in your profile, but they live on another island, and it's impractical to travel just for sex. Been here for years, used to have a joint profile with the wife, until we got tired of waiting and sorting through a lot of fakes so we decided to quit the online scene, and go searching in real life for real people. Had a few encounters, but they were just passing by, or we happened to be in their location at that time. Happened some years ago, and nothing since. Gotten the craving again, and I set up this account without the wife's knowledge, so as not to get her hopes up, just to get disappointed again. Chatted with a lot of interesting people, but so far, no real action. They find it difficult to make small talk with the wife, seeing as she doesn't know where these folks came from. Seems just talking about ordinary subjects is now an acquired skill. Hey, just get friendly with her, and she'll respond in kind. Don't get hung up about sex talk! Get out of the gutter, and try to see us as real individuals who just happen to like sex a lot also. Let's be friends first. Remember, my wife and I are looking for long-term, not one-night-only events. Are we worth it?
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3:36 pm Wednesday, 10th January, 2018
We agree with your points. We do enjoy the social side of this lifestyle too. We enjoy meeting and getting to know people with the same mindset, and we find it quite liberating to be able to talk about the lifestyle with like-minded people. That in itself is already a win in our books. If the attraction is there and everyone is comfortable enough to proceed further, we consider that as a bonus and just the icing on the cake. |
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12:38 am Tuesday, 6th February, 2018
i agree. and i agree with havingfun360-its a small city, i cant find the available couple to have a bi mmf with. and its hard to be fully discreet since i think that almost everyone in the city knows each other |
