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My first time at a club

3:13 pm Monday, 4th December, 2017

I've been screwing up my courage to go to a swingers' club for a long time. I've spent hours browsing websites and imagining what it would be like. I'm separating from my husband (still sharing a home) and although I have a lover, he is reticent to come with me. So, with my husband out until late on Saturday night, I finally decided it was now or never. I spent ages getting ready. I'm pretty hairless from being lasered but just tidied up the odd stray and then carefully chose my outfit. My style generally is demure on the outside and naughty beneath, so I didn't want to go too full on sexy. I chose a sheer see-through sleeveless blouse with a very short tight skirt with a crotchless wet-look body underneath, hold-ups and high heels. I felt great.
I walked in and got a brief guided tour. The hostess was very friendly and quite admiring of me just going on my own. I got a drink and sat near an older couple who very soon started chatting to me. They were old hands and soon put me at my ease, telling me about how the evening might go and about other clubs they'd been to. By now, the club was filling up and I went to get another drink and get to know some other people. I quickly fell in to conversation with several people at the bar. Everyone was so friendly and because we all knew what we were there for, it somehow made it incredibly relaxed and I felt very accepted by all. 
I caught the eye of a couple at the bar. We got chatting and had a wander around the club. After a few minutes, he suggested that he and I go into a room. I was so turned on by the whole situation, I didn't hesitate. We kissed and touched and licked and sucked for I don't know how long. But I really wanted to experience being with a woman for the first time, so we adjusted our clothing and went back out into the bar to find his girlfriend. No one batted an eyelid which was just fantastic. Back at the bar, chatting to some of the others, the attitude was simply pleasure that I had had fun. 
Anyway, we found his partner and she was only too happy to be my first bi experience. Kissing a woman is SO different to a man. And being licked by one is unbelievable! I'd always suspected it would be - who better to know what a woman likes than another woman? Her man joined in a little but I ran out of time to indulge further as I had to be home before my husband got back! But I can't wait to repeat the experience and take it even further.



Comments
8:16 am Sunday, 10th December, 2017

sounds like you have found a new life-so so happy when things go right for people. a good swingers club is a fab place,have lots more fun to come i hope!!  chris xxx

4:20 pm Thursday, 21st December, 2017

Thank you for sharing your experience sounds amazing and exactly what my partner and i are looking to experience ourselves.
Would you mind messaging us sometime soon to let us know which club you attended. x 

6:25 pm Sunday, 31st December, 2017

Should break me in lol xxxx

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