Swapping Inhibition - tips to overcome it for the successful, joyous journey

Hi folks, To break the mental barrier to get into a meeting with a couple and proceed further to first sex encounter with a strange person for the first time is a great task for the beginner couple in a sex swap. Here are few tips to overcome the barrier.
1. Be informed: Before posting your profile here, you should discuss with her first, without her consent posting the profile as a couple is not fair. After getting a response also, you can tell her what you have done provide when she is in a lighter, jovial mood.
2. Sex is in the mind: Telling her your fantasy - when you are making sex with her is the right time. Watching together adult movies, showing group sex videos, sharing the fantasy of having sex with different partners will definitely help you. It is one way of educating and preparing her to what you are going to do.
3. Involve her in decision making: In this game quite often the decision is taken by male only, but, there are instances both are involved also. Showing the response received, showing the profiles, pictures of the couple will definitely help her to make a mental frame work of the opposite partners. You can plan for video chat also.
3. Consider her preferences: Most of the cases male member will agree to a couple for swap if opposite lady is looking good. When you are selecting give priority to her preferences rather than yours don’t be selfish.
4. Effective Communication: Be frank with your spouse by communicating to her the positive aspects of swapping like why do you want swap, how it helps in improving your daily activities, how it works as a stress buster, a change from boredom etc.,.
5. Assure her safety: Getting right kind of couple is purely on luck. Just like selecting a girl/boy as your spouse, selecting a right kind of couple for swapping is also purely on your luck!!!. This is just like preparing your wife for first night with a new person!!!. At the same time you make it doubly sure you are meeting the right people. She may be worried for so many unknown factors like, status in the society, if known outside what will happen, sexually transmitted diseases etc., It is your moral duty to get a right kind of people for your wife, ensure her safety before the meeting, during meeting and after meeting also. Tell her if she does not like we will stop it at any point of time.
6. Always Maintain Safe sex: In the world of plenty of sexually transmitted diseases it is advisable to practice safe sex, ask her to insist her partner to wear condom, use proper contraceptives. In case of any infection accompany her to visit a doctor in the hospital, it’s your moral duty.
7. Share the work burden: If you are inviting couple to your home don’t load her with too much work. Share the work or order the drinks and food from outside, so that allow her to enjoy more don’t be selfish.
8. Get her feedback about the meeting: Be frank and ask her about what has happened in the previous night, did she enjoy? any concern in the meeting etc.,
9. Emotional Support: Both husband and wife is always possessive on each other. Even though we are broad minded a ray of jealous may crop up. After the first encounter sometimes the guilt may prevail because of something we have done wrong. Assure her it is nothing against the law as it happened based on our mutual consent and also we both have enjoyed.
Based on our experiences, after swapping, the stress is gone down significantly in our personal as well as professional life, love and affection has increased manifold. We both are very comfortable and always try to enjoy it. 
Hi, folks these are few tips based on our meetings you can add up on this topic based on yours. Sex is divine, enjoy it by breaking the shell which is based on myths. Always practice safe sex to avoid any fear and tension.

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