Many say they’re adventurous & up for anything but then baulk at the threshold.
It’s only fear of the unknown & maybe even judgement from the ‘partner.’
Once you take that step, fear does & will disappear & you can immerse yourself in the experience & discover new heights of exquisite pleasure. You will gain a new level of confidence in yourself & what you’re capable of.
When I said ‘partner’ I meant it. If we can be physically intimate in extreme ways then we should be able to talk about it too. Discuss your fantasy interests, limits, fears, bad experiences etc.
This avoids misunderstandings, and having unnecessary bad experiences. but the trust & respect that comes has a bonus that you’ll both (all😏) be much freer to say & do/have done some hot & amazing things.
I found this when I wanted to try mmf, light bondage, pegging. Now I would never go back to plain vanilla.
Talking will eliminate most of the fears. Taking action will take care of the rest.
Enjoy yourselves
