Soooooo....you are speaking to a match and then you both decide its best to chat some more before arranging to meet? We are all up for chatting first,but.....I think the excitement starts to diminish as you start to discuss what you are having for tea or explain what house work you need to catch up on!!! Yes....I agree chat a little but don't hose the fire down!!! Is it just me/us???💋💋💋