Convincing the wife to play

All of us have joined this site for one reason only.........and that is, to fulfill our sexual fantasies and improve our sex lives. It is common knowledge that at a certain point of a relationship, there is a tendency for the once active sex life to wane. The reasons range from the very mundane, familiarity of each other to a more complex marital/partner issues. As for the latter, there are red flags that sprout every now and then, which if left unresolved, might lead to isolation of one partner and for the other to take the path of infidelity. This is precisely what we want to avoid from happening, thus, we chose to indulge in the lifestyle. You might ask, what are these “red flags”? This is one question that only you, in a committed relationship can answer since it would depend on our respective situations. For the sake of discussion however, a typical example could be a husband who is so engrossed in his work that he neglects to meet the sexual needs of his wife. Another, is a wife neglecting her appearance/figure because she is too busy with the house chores and raising the kids. These are simple and little issues, but if compounded through the years, can cause irreparable damage to the relationship. So how do we solve this conundrum?

We have heard the cliché, “keep the fire burning in the relationship”, right? Although overused, it's TRUE. The intensity of your desire towards your partner must be the same level as when you started dating or when you got married. Despite the years and trials you've gone through, there must be lust in your eyes everytime you look at your wife. Now how do we sustain this so called fire? As we age or mature, we become more confident in ourselves and in our relationship that we are open to the idea of our wives having sex with other people. As much as a husband would want to indulge his wife, sometimes he doesn't have the stamina to perform for the partner's ultimate satisfaction. This is where SWINGING comes into the picture. Again, how do we convince the wife? I'm sure at one time, you watched porn films with your spouse, right? You should slowly introduce unconventional sex acts to her like: G2G, threesome, swap, anal, BBC while making love to her. At the point of her climax everytime you have sex, whisper to her ears all your fantasies until such time she makes it her own fantasies as well. Once she has embraced these fantasies you can now start swinging by inviting a bull a few times to satisfy her. After a while you can progress to G2G or full swap with another couple. I guaranty you, that once you've had enough experiences in swinging, you'd be all over each other like teenagers. That was how we started and as they say, “The rest is History”!

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