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Can you help me describe him?

2:57 pm Tuesday, 12th September, 2017

I was suppose to meet a guy this late afternoon, the first meet up after all the scheduled meeting that was not materialized.

With regards to this guy, the reason that I won't meet him is because of his attitude. He doesn't show respect, especially in asking me out.

He is texting me for a long period of time already, like 4 to 5 months more or less. Message goes like these: "dn ka, itot ta".

I don't like his approach, sounds like "bastos, walang pinag aralan". He said he is an educated guy, showing me this kind of attitude is a turn off.

Going back to the meet up earlier, I agreed to meet him. I gave him my location, he didn't even bother to tell me the color of his shirt.

He texted me that he passed by at my back, but then I haven't seen him. I hate it being stalked, it is only him who knows me.

So I left the place, transferred to another place. He keeps on texting me to meet him, begging for me to meet him. 

I decided to meet and greet him, no more other issues. But then, I'm so disappointed. I haven't seen him, and he is the only one who saw me. 

He didn't even bother to say hi or introduce himself, as if we are roaming around the bush. I finally decided not to meet him, a sh~tty meet up. 

He said: "Ikaw pa may gana mangakig, ka damo sang time kagina kag early pa gina pa budlayan mo gid ako". 

To make the long story short, I got mad because of the things he did. As if it's my fault for not giving him the time, I wasted it and never gave him the chance. 

****This is not the first time that he saw me first, I didn't saw him and stalked me going to my hotel... 

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Comments
8:38 pm Tuesday, 12th September, 2017

Why would u be sorry sounds like he's a creep and it's best you stay away. If he was at your back and u took the time to meet him twice

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9:28 pm Tuesday, 12th September, 2017

I dont feel sorry for him opencoupleinCDO, im editing something pro hndi n approve. Im already p~ssed, i blocked him a couple of times already but im not that bad coz after a while i unblock him on my phone. Hndi nman aq ung tipong to the max n mgalit, i can forgive but never forgets. Tyvm for ur comment, ill follow ur advice.

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3:25 am Wednesday, 13th September, 2017

Forget him and move on. Meets is not about hi's, hellos then lets fack our brains out. I dunno if i got your story right but it aint right to stalk and decide whether to meet or not to meet. 

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4:34 am Wednesday, 13th September, 2017

Better you just ignore his txt and message he has no balls to face you whats more does he has balls literally? Its not worth it. 

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4:49 am Wednesday, 13th September, 2017

plenty of fishes in the sea

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2:07 pm Wednesday, 13th September, 2017

Thank you bogzlee and WeRenjoying, i really appreciate your comments and suggestions. 

9:32 am Friday, 15th September, 2017

with regards to that kind of situation yes all of us encountered people like that. mga nagfefeeling fubu, bf or even as if they were the husband. again the keyword here is respect not everyone knows the real meaning of the word itself just the word. in any other way i find him the "maledukado" type no breeding, no manners no nothing. me and my wife dont entertain time wasters and i suggest you do the same my dear friend....

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9:54 am Friday, 15th September, 2017

Thank you TattooedCpl, i really appreciate it. Im getting choosy nowadays, if it doesnt meet my standards then its a no no. 

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10:07 am Friday, 15th September, 2017

Well you are very considerate too considerate for that matter, first time he did that you should block him already...

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10:09 am Friday, 15th September, 2017

Thank you CoolDad..

10:12 am Friday, 15th September, 2017

Jigz, masama ang mgtanim ng galit s kapwa.. Hahaha, im tightening my belt now. Getting choosy as the days pass, not willing to e perience that again.. Thank you!

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11:24 am Friday, 15th September, 2017

That guy is a douchebag

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11:26 am Friday, 15th September, 2017

if u happen to come over cebu, let me know. probably (and hopefully) we can finally get to meet. 😊

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11:58 am Friday, 15th September, 2017

Hahaha, we havent met wen i was there. Quite busy though TongueTwister, hopefully i have time and finallyeet you.

5:14 pm Friday, 15th September, 2017

I think a consensus has been met, don't put yourself in bad position and as some have stated swinging, NSA any kind of meetups respect 

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5:15 pm Friday, 15th September, 2017

Respect for every individual involved is key to swinging along with loyalty and communication 

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11:41 pm Friday, 15th September, 2017

Thank you very much opencoupleinCDO, opinions, suggestions and comments are being noted. Im being extra cautious now due to this, its another bad day for me. 

12:53 am Saturday, 16th September, 2017

well same goes with us we are being choosy as well for both couples and single guys bec there people pretending to be couples and keeps reasoning to us that his partner/wife is not available. others they want to go one on one with my wife. others are pushy,rude, and has no manners  watch for those type of people esp posers and time wasters.l

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1:25 am Saturday, 16th September, 2017

If guys and couples are like you, then theres no problem. Respectful, well mannered guy and straightforward guys or couples are nice to meet, they are nice to talk and intellectual. I have meet this guy, no face pic. There is a pic but sideways and far, he just describe his shirt and so as mine i told him also. Constant communication is also good to establish trust before meet up, enjoy the moment there after.

4:47 pm Monday, 25th September, 2017

jeepers creepers...I don't have much experience with meetups but even I know that is NOT how to do it!

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