Finally, The Urge to Merge, to Meet the Urge

And now we are TWO, acting as ONE.

While it was a bold step for the both of us, it seemed a little bit of tongue-in-cheek in the beginning. My guy and I are letting ourselves into the world of swinging COUPLES.

It was in Dec 2015 that I joined this site solo, and I was thrown into this world of hookup sex. I didn't include couples as among whom I was searching for. I was mostly (well, I still am mainly) interested in one-on-ones. My open-mindedness allowed me to play female thirdy to a handful of couples (all mixed race). As a result, my curiosity was rewarded with learning and precious practical experience.

I have to admit, that I never got my desired fill in these encounters. I am way too insatiable or too kinky for their liking, I suppose. Can't get much rough action. But I always loved being a woman, with someone else's woman. Hahaha

So meeting my guy changed a lot of things, as I started to seek the warm fuzzy feelings of a real, romantic relationship. I now have a restraining order from the Boss to avoid playing solo, much for my own good (behavior).

And while the decision to play with couples can be considered a welcome break for us, it also serves as a litmus test, and my guy and I have to devise our own rules of engagement. The basic formula? SRS, gtg, soft swap (while being open to hard swap depending on the mood).

But wait....since I have always been selective and cautious, it now means I have to apply my time-tested approach to looking for the prospective couple to meet.

Filter, filter, filter...a female Hub friend reminded me. It would be worth all the effort when play date arrives.

I told my Boss that I still have standards when it comes to the guy. I am not planning on faking enjoyment when the moment of truth comes out.

Will we have our ice breaker couple meetup soon? Hard to say, as the task seems as daunting as looking for a needle in a hay stack. Having to set up group chatting (we want to be able to communicate with both partners from the onset) would have to be the sanest way to determine interest to avoid regrets.

I really couldn't chat the way I did when I was still a solo player. I will be missing a lot of those moments when I caused my prospects a 'hard time' through chat, but it's still a good way to spark some interest. Oh well, it's time to be a bit more transactional now, for we can't avoid sending the wrong message and create hassles for any couple.

This bitch can learn new tricks from the book. Now, how to seduce a couple?

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