Hey Folks!
So, my wife and I have been interested in exploring our sexuality for a while now. As far back as many years, when we were still a relatively new couple, we hit one of the more well known clubs in Toronto. We tried several other clubs, but for one reason or another, nothing really happened. I think at the time, we had some unrealistic expectations, and maybe our body language, approach, whatever, led to no fireworks. The last couple of years, we have been under a lot of external stress, which affected our sex lives, almost to the point where I think we were both questioning our commitment to each other. We have a family, and neither of us wanted to see anything happen to it. But we knew, we needed to something, otherwise out sexual frustration could lead to us both making mistakes that we both would regret.
I have an awesome partner. We both are able to have open candid conversation. We discovered how to be honest with each other, but more importantly, honest with ourselves. Meaning, instead of lying and denying to the person in the mirror, we acknowledged that we are human, and that it OK to be human. What does that mean? We know that we are sexual creatures, that we are designed to be attracted to people, that we are designed to crave sex with other people, and that it is healthy and completely normal to feel this way. Once my wife and i were able to have this honest conversation, it was very cathartic. I felt more and more attracted to her, and she felt more desire to be intimate with me ( intimate, which is not necessarily sexual, but closer, comfortable, loved, secure etc).
So, knowing my partner, knowing what attracts her to others, what others find attractive about her ( which is EVERYTHING) the thought of her getting turned on and getting off with another guy absolutely blows my mind. Not certain that it works the other way, but we decided we were willing to explore and do what we THOUGHT would turn us on. Fantasy is one thing, but sometimes reality is a slap in the face!
So, this past Saturday, we hit a local club that is a water themed place. ( Not mentioning names). there were multiple events planned that evening, so there was a tremendous turn out. This was a different visit from past visits, as this time, we went to see the entertainment, and were not worried at all if we met anyone, or if anything was going to happen. I was amazed to see people from all walks of life, every age range, and moreso, how easy going and comfortable everyone seemed with each other. I mean, everyone was there for a reason! We got down to towels, and strolled around, watching people, and checking out the various "events", the most enjoyable being the musical entertainment which brought everyone together, and really set the mood. At this point I was very turned on and told my wife that if left right now, I'd leave happy, as I got what i wanted out of the evening.
Main floor bar, we went to grab a drink, and bumped into a couple we had seen earlier. I had mentioned to my wife that I thought the woman was attractive. Well, we started talking and the 4 of us hit it off. Amazingly well. Now, the guy was not the kind of guy my wife would be attracted to, but he was nice, we felt at ease, and the his partner was attractive, and they both indicated that they wanted her to play with me. This was amazing!!!! She at one point dropped her towel and started grinding me, and her partner grabbed my hands and placed them on her. I got very turned on, but the only thing I thought about was " how is my wife taking this?" My amazing life partner smiled and encourage me to have fun. Wow!
We ended up on another floor, where there was a room with glass looking into a play room. My wife started watching the couple in there play, I started playing with the other couple, and things got hot, so much so we all migrated into the adjoining playroom. And then it began in earnest. Long and short of it, I was servicing both my wife and the other woman, and it was amazing! Then, while we were busy, another young hot couple came into the area and they started getting busy. I was able to get both woman off, after which we decided to take a breather, as it was SMOKING HOT in this small room. The other young couple was just getting started, so we sat back and watched. They were very passionate and it got all of us stoked up. We all started playing AGAIN and it was steamy! The young guy was wearing this lace underwear, and my wife and our new female friend were quite amped. Amy, I'll call our new friend, asked if she could touch his ass and play with his nipples, and he agreed. I kept urging my wife to go and touch the guys ass if she wanted to.....he was busy going down on his girlfriend, Amy was darting in and out playing with the young girl as well ( who was all into it). I needed a restroom break so off I went.
When I came back, WOW! There was my wife, joined in, giving the young guy a hand job while he was going down on his girlfriend! This blew my mind! This was the fantasy I had for my wife that was finally coming true!!!!! And she was quite into it!!!! I strongly encouraged her, I even went so far as to ask if she wanted me to get her a condom, I was all for it!!! I had had been very warm and tired from our previous exertions, but when I saw this, my wife sexually pleasing this handsome young man, boooooom! Fatigue gone! Everything jolted into high gear! Now, I had been planning on having intercourse with Amy, our new friend, but seeing my wife on all fours, bent over, I had to get behind her! I even asked PERMISSION as I wanted to make sure that by doing so, I wasn't derailing any of HER plans for fun. Thankfully, she said go for it! Now, I love doggy style, and that usually not a position my wife prefers, but this was perfect. She went down on the guy (after asking permission of course) I mounted her, and it all went bonkers from there! At this point, ANOTHER young couple asked to join us, and they were going at it, all six of us were going at it, and people were stopping, looking in, smiling, I was in heaven! THIS was what Ihad dreamed of! Most of all, I was SO TURNED ON watching my wife pleasure another man, and that eliminated my one fear, that fantasy would trump reality, and that when it came down to it, I wouldn't be able to handle watching my wife with another man. Well no, not the case! It made me CRAZY!!! I loved it! you see, I knew, no matter what, she was coming home with me,and that we were good, and overall, even if all I ended up being was a spectator, one way or the other, at the end of it, I would have got mine, either from my wife or from Amy. But as it happened, my wife is good at what she does, because this young guy made HIS girl go boom, then he went KAPOW because of my wife. So, of course, I heard him going, and KNOWING it was my wife who did it, I then had my turn. And man, it was soooo goood!!!
Needless to say, we were all thanking each other for an amazing time afterwards. No numbers collected, just well wishes and the hopes we meet THERE again. Playtime is playtime, no need for us to let that enter into our regular, normal everyday lives. Even afterwards, my wife kept talking about what got her going, because truth be told, the guy she pleasured was nit the typical guy she is attracted to. But int he right place, the right mood, the right setting, anything can happen. I've learned to just accept, because its not about me, its about her, and what makes her happy. So, maybe it is about me a bit, because when she is turned on, I feed off that. My take away from all this: nothing turns me on more than people who choose to be human, accept their humanity, and understand that you live once, you are dead a long time. Live while you are alive. Do the things that make you happy. I just happen to have the perfect life partner, and cant wait to do it again!!!!
Woo Hoo!
