League Of Reluctant Adults

A big hello to all the beautiful couples, women, real, gold diggers, wannabe and not so wannabe people out here. I'm a happily UNmarried (again) male here.  😀✌️

Actually this thought has plagued my mind for far too long, Typing this out is my feeble attempt to make sense of something my rational mind refuses to comprehend.
There are millions of adult dating sites, millions of people on them and millions of connections happening every day... But my blog is about the RELUCTANT ADULTS here on this platform. 

WHY almost every second profile here has the words like 
STRICTLY NO FOR SINGLES
SINGLES WILL BE BLOCKED
SINGLES STAY AWAY
SINGLES DON'T WASTE OUR TIME etc etc etc 

I do agree that there are a whole lot of people here who are fake be it singles, couples or women with fake ids, pictures, and so on but dear couples & single women, please understand that there are loads of genuine Singles here  on the same platform, looking to meet some genuine people for friendship, relationship, or may be simply for some great sex. 

Most profile mention that you are here to explore the wild side, to spice up your boring sex life, to experience a new lover, cuckold, searching for bull and  blah blah blah but do you realize that there are many genuine singles also who are searching and wanting to share a good relationship & experience the same ?? 

Why most of the couples are so reluctant to even try and find out if the person is genuine or fake.. ?? Life happens everyday , but what makes life interesting is the small connections, laughs, talks, sharing and caring with others be it known or unknown people you meet or get in touch with. It is not necessary  only couples - married or living together or lovers who would understand you or share a special relationship with you.. it could be anyone like a single male, a girlfriend, a CD or a Shemale for that matter. 

Singles do not intend to just come and enjoy your woman for free and have a laugh at you. I agree there are loads of them who are just waiting for an opportunity to jump into your woman's pants for free but NOT ALL Singles... I repeat NOT ALL SINGLES. 

Sex is a very beautiful feeling, but it is not something sacrosanct. If you are on an adult dating site and are searching for a third partner to share this intimate feeling then how sure are you that the couple you approach or the couple approaching you are real, clean, good or better than singles ??? 

Most of the couples who are ready to meet singles are offering paid services, If you are here to make money by sharing your woman with a stranger, then you are in the very wrong place my friend. If I was looking for just plain paid sex then I would walk into a bar, pick up a woman, have sex, pay her and simply vanish. 

My personal view is that this site or any such dating sites are here to help us find good people who match our interests, build and share a good relationship, caring, laughter, fun and spend some real good intimate time together which is satisfying and mutual to all.

Like they say DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER.. same way don't judge a person by his relationship status, you never know who your next best friend or lover could be. I'm glad to be here, have met some wonderful people too, we have and are still sharing some very special moments even today and in future too , but not all are lucky to find a good match soon. 

Give the man or the woman a chance, talk to them, try to gel and if still you don't feel the trust and connect... you could always use the BLOCK button 😀😀 So before you join the League Of Reluctant Adults , just give the other person a chance. 

Thank you for reading my Blog. All above views are my own and are inspired by real life experiences. Good luck and happy hunting to all you beautiful folks.

If you liked what you read, then don't forget to hit the like button or leave a comment.  CiaoJOSH a.k.a Bigbadwolf 40 😘😘😘

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