I have been dabbling, mildly, with BDSM, as a switch, but recently I have started to want to get a little heavier.
I have no problem relinquishing control with somebody that I know well and trust (in fact I really enjoy it......the anticipation), the fact that somebody else is making all the decisions - all with a safe word obviously.
But when I'm being the master, which I enjoy too, I find myself thinking (and I stress thinking) about doing all kinds of stuff that I just stop myself from doing. I'm not sure why. Perhaps I'm a sub? But I don't think so - it really depends who I'm with....
So, in a nutshell - I have a question. Where can you get "lessons" in BDSM - as I would like to learn more, but also to understand what is going on mentally, physically and psychologically?
