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the ups and downs of this lifestyle

1:34 am Tuesday, 25th April, 2017

we have been a member of this site for quite sometime now, and have met quite a lot of people.  then comes the ups and downs. you meet a member which clearly states in their profile that they are a couple and only the guy would show up and make excuses about how his partner is not available. worst about this is that they don't even give you a heads up that their partner is not available. secondly, you chat with a guy, and he seems pretty aggressive, tells you that they would fuck your brains out, would pleasure me all out, but when you meet and you are doing the deed, they fall flat right on their faces. lastly (for the downs of this lifestyle) you make plans, schedule a meet up, but when the date comes, some frigging emergency or weather conditions inhibit you from going thru with the plan, your all psyched up, horny and ready but it falls flat on your face. 

but then again there are 2 sides to every story, we've met guys who are totally cool, guys that can deliver the goods. mostly those guys are the quiet type when you chat, and they just usually go with the flow, not those passive, and not aggressive either, those are the guys that are usually able to deliver. as for couples, well haven't met the right couple yet, i'm quite choosy, sorry about that. females, well nothing happened yet, but still waiting for the right female to meet up with us. 

as you can see this is our point of view, and our personal experience. you can comment or add if you like, its a free country right.....



Comments
12:26 am Wednesday, 26th April, 2017

Thumbs up... you hit the target. such experiences is not new as we also encountered the same.  worst is some pretends to be but can not actually do as expected and described in their profile.  True as it is, those who are not vocal are the ones who can actually deliver the goods.   well, that's the way it is.. Good day and good luck to us all... 

3:03 am Wednesday, 26th April, 2017

so true very true...

6:19 am Wednesday, 26th April, 2017

 we alo had same problems met many great people for fun ,, we had more then our share of poser and no shows people who ask pics cam or cell no just to txt txt?? we have a variety of fun mmf ffm fff most been great fun and ongoing social meets, we experienced aggressive hubbies who push or make there wives do the deeds it take out the fun when people demand  we look for people who we think are open minded and all are willing participants notby there partners.. easy to say let meet many dont have family or commitments some time u cant keep or promised date then txt in advance ??not hard to do we had date and the person never had kindness to txt or say sorry we traveled far to there town got room snack drinks for the night no show no txt ??never a wast for us we have plan b always  any way guy hope u find ur funs and enjoy there alway be the wanker poser

5:45 pm Wednesday, 26th April, 2017

You have not ask us.....that's why you're dissapointed..:-)

4:46 am Thursday, 27th April, 2017

Well said 🙂

4:55 am Saturday, 29th April, 2017

We have the same disappointments.  This is the lifestyle we chose and I wish people will learn to take into consideration the time and effort we put to it after we agreed to meet up on certain date! It only takes a text to inform the concern that they cant come- please dont let them wait for nothing...don't be rude, time is important to busy people like us. Lastly, It is so common here that people talk big words but in real action they don't really have the pull...and we always get the same ending...it sucks that we have to go down to our level to accommodate their incapabilities!  But atleast we are learning from every experience  and thats good. We maybe amateur to this lifestyle but not so much in performing the activities so, goodluck to all you fellas.  As for us, we are still looking, waiting and hoping to find a decent couple who would match us in fulfilling our fantasies....thank you all for reading  🙂

4:44 am Sunday, 30th April, 2017

It takes patience to find the right playmates. Proper scheming of profiles, checking the background of the person, etc, etc.. and after all the hard work, disappointments, and downsides in the end you get to see the collateral beauty of it.

5:46 am Monday, 1st May, 2017

We can all relate to this.hopefully you can find a the right couple that suits your lifestyle.Good read.

9:21 am Monday, 1st May, 2017

swing fun shouldn't take months to meet others it only for fun not a life time romance ,, it so  slow in ph, in australia u can meet in hrs or in next days and most are true to there word or pfs ,,,,  we accept distances work and untrust of other as one of the main problems ?? taken all this into account ,fake poser time waster ad to people not wanting to meet , then u have couples well single men posing or saying my wife ?? men saying ther well hung hahah or can do 3 pops ?in 30 second it all over  come on be honest as all who doing will enjoy if u not true to one we all find out as the swing community talks ??we tell other dont meet this or that people as they not as they say don't worry been doing swing way to long so can seek out fake pretty easy ,, men lift ur game u want fun be honest dont need a 10 in cock just know how to use it learn to control yourself make the lady happy and man ur in,, make her cum before even thinking of dick work?oh and next day if ur lucky to score a happy thank u txt or we had a great time helps  if all tell true make a meet or cant meet please a simple txt sorry i cant get there ?? men if ur  if u over age be honest no good turning up to a 25 yr old and ur 99?? ladys also if ur bi say so if u never done it say so as first time it hard honesty people goes way further than lies we also will turn u down if u meet and ur not what u say u are 

4:22 pm Thursday, 8th June, 2023

True to every words

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