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7:02 am Friday, 21st April, 2017

Circa 2016

I was seeing this guy for almost a year and everything was so good. We connect on so many levels, the sex and conversations were excellent. He was basically a fubu to me until he asked if we can take it up a notch, I was a bit hesitant at first because that's not how it was supposed to be, right? Fubu is a fubu, nothing more, nothing less but I decided to give it a shot besides, I won't lose anything on that deal. So we were like boyfriend-girlfriend, getting all mushy . We go on dates, takes me somewhere fancy to eat, things that legit couples do. And I realized, I was already into him, like I invested feelings because he's a really nice guy, sweet, thoughtful, gentleman but a freak on bed, smart, in other words, everything that I would want in a guy. One day, I just woke up and knew that he was just more than a fuck buddy to me so I treated him like how I would treat a boyfriend. Showered him with affection, fed his ego, made him feel good about himself and truly loved him. When I was so into him, so fucking in love and invested, he just dropped me. Like I was no one to him. Unfollowed and blocked me on all social media we both have. I mean, wtf dude? You asked me to be your girlfriend. I was cool being just your fuck buddy, we were good friends and each other's booty call and then you'll just leave me like that. I would've appreciate it if he at least said something but he didn't. So i just moved on and continued with my beautiful life. ๐Ÿ™‚

Moral of the story: a fuck buddy stays a fuck buddy. ๐Ÿ˜Š



Comments
8:34 am Friday, 21st April, 2017

totoo yan ๐Ÿ™‚

8:38 am Friday, 21st April, 2017

Deym! When I first started reading this particular blog of yours, I was almost sure that you were gonna pull-off some of the rarest things that could happen between fubu's. I thought for a second that maybe this could be one of those "then they live happily ever after" stories.ย 
Thanks for reminding us the moral of your story. However, I do believe that there is always an exception to the rule. So I wouldn't say that this is absolute. But your ex fubu was really such an @sshole for doing that to you. Glad to hear that you've moved on and continuing with your life. Hopefully you find a better fubu than he ever was. Good luck and just keep doing what you want to do with your life.ย ๐Ÿ˜€

9:19 am Friday, 21st April, 2017

Sad ๐Ÿ˜ข .

4:51 pm Friday, 21st April, 2017

most people fall in love (or think they're in love) when they've been f*ck buddies for at least a few months. however, the guy was a total douche bag. the moment he took it to the next level, it wasn't an fwb relationship anymore.
i would've been happy with just the fwb relationship

2:19 am Saturday, 22nd April, 2017

hey? can i be your fuck buddy? i would like to be your fuck buddy, i can fuck you any positions you want and fuck you anywhere and anytime ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜˜

8:55 am Saturday, 22nd April, 2017

I wud agree with wat u had said. I had been in thesame situation..always love yourself first and ย theres nothing wrong with taking it higher. take care always

8:24 am Monday, 24th April, 2017

Maybe you couldve check his history? He may have made you as a rebound gf? In any case rules shoukd be followed and the other party needs to follow that set of rules.


I guess charge it to experience for now.

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