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Swinging - Lack of dedication or Rebuilding the Trust?

5:17 pm Thursday, 20th April, 2017

Sleeping or having sex with somebody else outside your relationship isn’t always a bad thing. Relationship Doom is what many people would see if they have the urge to sleep with someone outside their relationship. So, is it a bad thing?

Truly every relationship is different and no relationship that is perfect, every relationship has some hidden secrets and flaw. What someone might see and consider as immoral might be tame somebody else, so don’t be judgmental.

Everything is perfect in relationships as long as any desire or any activity doesn’t affect your partner negatively or hurt your partner. If your hotwife feels like sleeping with another man, would you be okay with that? Are you considering the choices or doubting about the repercussions?

Contrary to popular conviction, the desire to have sex with someone else doesn’t always come out of mistrust and dissatisfaction, but instead it is brought about by trust and complete understanding of each other’s requirement’s and need’s, romantically and sexually.

Imagine how you would feel if your woman has sex with another man behind your back. Would it be okay for you? Surely NO. If you let her sleep with another man, it means that you trust her and your relationship will somehow grow stronger.

Both you and your lady have sexual desires. And at times, you’re all going to get uninterested of seeing the person in bed all the time. Humans love variety by nature.

The desire to sleep with somebody outside the relationship, It’s an attraction temptation that often troubles  from the inside.

Truly deep inside any sexually active person who says that he or she can’t think of anybody other than their sweetheart in bed or cannot fantasize anyone might be not that much of a truth. So it is better to let someone experience something new to break the monotony that is built in your relationship.

It is also cute and sexy to let your hotwife to sleep with another man. She will get certified but do not force her to do it, let her decide for herself if she needs to feel someone else in bed. Any woman will always see their relationship as good so long as their men listen to their needs.

Lastly, if your lady asks you if she can sleep with another man that means she respects you, your decisions, and also she trusts you so much. Feel free to offer her the privilege but be cautious.



Comments
7:35 pm Monday, 5th June, 2017

contact with me pls

2:53 am Monday, 4th September, 2017

I sense a bit of hedonism in your writing, are you both hedonists ?

11:07 am Friday, 30th March, 2018

Really, you are broad and open minded person as like as me.

3:49 am Saturday, 24th November, 2018

Indeed it is pa

6:13 pm Monday, 10th February, 2020

Yeah.. it's true. Husband should respect wife's desire and wife should take the permission from husband to mitigate her own secrete desire.

6:13 pm Monday, 10th February, 2020

Yeah.. it's true. Husband should respect wife's desire and wife should take the permission from husband to mitigate her own secrete desire.

4:08 am Saturday, 8th April, 2023

Like your blog and view of swinging ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

10:26 pm Tuesday, 11th April, 2023

Great blog, my wife and I have been happily married for 30 years. I would be 100% ok if she would like to have sex with another manwoman. 

We have discussed sex with others and also having threesomes. When the topic comes up the sex gets heated, I can tell she like the idea of another person joining us. She is still a little to shy to act on her fantasy's, but hopefully someday we will get to experience it. 

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