Now let me walk you through this 3-step formula.
Step 1: Discover Your Unique Sugar Baby Allure
Here’s the most important step, and if you plan on skipping it, you might as well stop reading right now. When you are trying to find a sugar daddy, you’ve got to fill a need within your sugar daddy and you want to position yourself as the one that can provide it. I know that sounds complicated, but it’s not. All you’ve got to do is this:
First, You are not going to appeal to all Sugar Daddies. Reread that AND Reread that again. Not all Sugar Daddies will be subjective to your charm and that is okay. You are not going to attract every single Sugar Daddy and that is ok. Figure out what makes you unique and why a Sugar Daddy would want to be with you.
Second, Write those unique qualities about you on a piece of paper, and then begin to write in a way to attract the Sugar Daddy you want.
And that unique allure is all that matters.
I’ll say that one more time…
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Step 2: How to Build Anticipation The Right Way
Why focus on building anticipation?
That anticipation builds desire.
That anticipation gets Sugar Daddies to respond.
That anticipation opens what’s known as an information gap, and people can’t wait to fill it.
(When there is a gap between what people know and don’t know, they seek to fill it. This was first discovered by George Loewenstein, and it’s called “information gap theory.”)
How Do You Build That Anticipation?
That’s easy.
You tell Sugar Daddies what they want to hear, but you’re not too specific about it. You give details, but hold back the real meat.
For example, when I put up a profile I would do it in a way that not only stimulated the minds of these potential Sugar Daddies but they were responding. I positioned myself as a never-ending book that they wanted to learn more.
Within the profile I controlled what emotions I wanted the Potential Sugar Daddy to feel and “evoke an emotion” within him and guided him on what to do next.
And what happened? Sugar Daddies were responding.
The reality is this: Most Sugar Daddies aren’t going to read your profile. You want to grab their attention with your Headline and say more with fewer words to build that anticipation. You get two chances to grab attention instead of one: Headline and the content in your profile.
Anticipation works.
Step 3: How to Deliver
Here’s where things get sticky…
When you build anticipation, you’ve got to deliver. I know that sounds simple, but I’ve found that when people just do what they say they’re going to do, they’re light years ahead of everyone else.
Cynical, yes, but still true.
Now if you really want to woo your potential Sugar Daddies… and ensure that these Sugar Daddies KNOW you brought the goods… you should over deliver.
Here’s how:
1. The reply from when he responds to your ad – For example, after you write you ad it doesn’t stop. You are a never ending book and that continues. Continue your Sugar Baby Allure from your profile to the replies that you will send back to these potential Sugar Daddies. You want to keep the image you want to have with them and continue to guide them. This is the perfect place to gather information from your Sugar Daddy by asking him what he is missing and things that interest him. The key here is to get to know him and understand him and build trust. You also want to qualify your Sugar Daddy. Can he afford you?
2. Trust – Taking it offline and meeting. Your first meeting is essential for building trust.
3. DELIVER – You can’t get around this. No matter what allure that you used to reel in your potential sugar daddy, you’ve got to make sure you’re delivering what is that they want but in the same time getting what you want.
And that’s it.
You’re set. Now here’s what I want you to do:
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But now let’s get down to the nitty-gritty:
First, you’ll need to come up with what you’d like to achieve. Remember, it can be anything.
But here are some things to consider:
How will you keep your Sugar Daddy intrigued?
How will you ask for what you want?
How do you sustain your relationship for the long haul?
How do you take the financial generosity of your Sugar Daddy and double it?
Once you’ve answered these questions, you’ll be well on your way towards accelerating your Sugar Daddy dating success.
