It's very difficult for a lone male to get involved in this scene and I can understand why after speaking to some people - many blokes are after a shag and that's it. End of.
So for those like me who are here for a reason, to get what they're not getting at home and stopping me from going mad, it can be frustrating. I've tried several websites, wasted a lot of cash and on here as a free account I got spammed by loads of viewings and messages. I paid knowing this activity would stop and I'm glad I did.
Still trying to find out how this site works in certain places as some areas really are not explained very well for example pictures and uploading, changing my password from the default system-generated one to what I want and browsing. Searching with the same criteria seems to bring different results from slightly to quite different so not sure if this is time of day or week etc.
