It’s an interesting concept. You meet someone, get to know them, and at some point, determine that this is a person you want to form a relationship with. I’m talking about romantic relationships, of course, b****iscuss can also be applied when thinki****workers and even sometimes, family.
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“a person whom one does not know or with whom one is not familiar.”
We all start out as strangers. Something along the line then brings us together; whether it’s friends, family, work, other strangers, something brings us to the point of wanting to become connected. These connections, I think depending on your personal beliefs, can be fate or they can be by chance. Personally, I think we meet who we’re supposed to. They teach us what we’re supposed to learn and they either remain in our lives, or we are destined to be apart… to become strangers.
We start out as strangers with some people and end as strangers. You will always remember the great times you had, what built your relationship etc, and our natural human-like instinct will be to go to those memories and wonder what if? Intense relationships have a habit of making us second guess, and that’s okay, as long as you’re able to pull yourself from those thoughts and remain current. These people become strangers once again, and the moments and memories you have, no longer dictate the kind of person they might be.
I say this applies to other relationships, because it does. I’ve recently ended a relationship... I often remind myself that I’m better off because of it. These two people, have become strangers. My ex boyfriend, a stranger. Your freeze-frame of what your relationship was is no longer. The****ve changed, you have changed, and what was might not ever be again. And I say again, that’s OKAY.
I think it’s human nature to want relationships to last, to fight for the ones we care about and to try and salvage the great moments we once had. I think the point of this post is the support you and remind you that it OKAY to move on from relationships that no longer serve you and help you grow. And in the moments where you feel weak, or wonder, don’t feel guilty. Sometimes people come in to our lives to teach us lessons, give us love, guidance, whatever it is we need, and then they are destined to move on without us. We are destined to move on, without them.
To the forever relationships in our lives and the ones t****ake us grow… And to the strangers…
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3:02 pm Sunday, 12th March, 2017
Profound and beautiful it sums up to our nature really well 😊 |
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5:52 pm Monday, 13th March, 2017
Nice you missed your path, you shoud be a writter! |
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10:57 pm Monday, 13th March, 2017
All the people we have now in our lofe were once strangers 🙂 |
