Just entered a new relationship... And like everyone I really wanted it to work this time... I have been in failed relationships before and it always end up so exhausting and draining... I admit I wanted this relationship to last so bad that I was rushing to it... But he made me realize... We have to take it slow... Here is what I realized after pondering on the things he told me...
The slower you take it and the more memories you create, the deeper your love grows.
It's all about creating memories. Memories make us who we are. Memories are made from the experiences, thoughts and lessons that we accumulate in our lives.
They’re what make life pleasant — and it’s not just about having these memories, but creating them.
Your life is meant to be enjoyed. The only way to do that is to spend it with those that you love, doing the things that you love doing. We have this odd need to label everything, to put it in a box and neatly stack it on our shelves.
Love isn't something that you catch. It's something that you live. It's an experience that can get better every day — as long as you work towards this.
Love isn't easy. I know it may seem that way, but that's only because you've rushed into it.
All of those problems in relationships due to people rushing through things instead of focusing on how to improve their relationship and the love they are.
Love is not a game. It's not a race. It's not a collectible. Love is life. It's not meant to be kept in your pocket; it’s meant to be lived. Don't rush.
Do everything you can to make better the life of the one you love. Spend time really getting to know and understand your partner.
Be present. Forget the labels and grand gestures that you feel so inclined to make. Instead, just love. You don't need anything else.
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11:20 pm Monday, 20th February, 2017
this is true i know someone whos rushed into an infatuation she come unstuck |
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11:20 pm Monday, 20th February, 2017
nice profile too |
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1:53 am Tuesday, 21st February, 2017
oh well, we cant win it all. |
