Your body is a wonderland

Your scenario reminds me of that Oliver Stone film "Born on the Fourth of July" based on the true story of a Vietnam Vet who was shot in the spine and rendered dysfunctional from the lower back down. It was interesting how he found solace in paid services, where he learned to experience sex in a different way from before.........

While I am, of course, grateful to all the women I've met in the past, there are a few who stand out in the memory. It's hard to put my finger on specific reasons why these women were special, but perhaps it was because they came very close to my ideals about beauty, character and attitude. I think many of us do have a "type" when it comes to sexual partners, and the reasons why we develop this type of "idee fixe" probably lies deep in the individual psyche and is beyond analysis.

As far as this site is concerned, the highlight for me was probably being contacted by a young woman in her late 20s who lived in the midlands. She was of mixed European and middle eastern descent and very beautiful. Being the suspicious old sceptic that I am, my initial reaction was that it was a scam, but she persisted and sent me photos, and I began to realize that she was genuine and serious about slogging it all the way to Yorkshire to stay with me. She was true to her word, and gave me a night (and morning) I'll never forget. We parted fondly and I jokingly said that would likely be the last we saw of each other. She smiled and simply said "well, we never know these things do we?"
About a week after our meeting, she disappeared off the site and wrote me a mail thanking me. I never saw or heard from her again, and sometimes I wonder whether I dreamt the whole thing up. Later I began to ponder all sorts of conspiracy theories to account for my good fortune, one of which was that she was in the pay of the site, and employed to go around the country visiting "deserving causes" among the middle-aged male site members (laughable I know, but I *did* consider it :-)) I still have her photos :-))

There are other tales I could relate - many pertaining to Japan - but in the interests of modesty and decorum I'll let that do for now. I think the bottom line is that I've always considered myself pretty ordinary in terms of male attractiveness, and even a bit geeky. However, I've met a large number of attractive women for reasons perhaps only they can explain. I remain baffled but truly grateful, and I can say that "adult dating" has left me with a rich storehouse of memories that I would never have had otherwise.