I was asked this question by someone recently 'so what does a married guy look for if you are already married'. The answers seem to always lean towards 1. lack of sex, 2. lost interest in the wife, 3. lack of sex, 4. I must be an asshole, 5. lack of sex. I am unsure if the above is the answer for the rest or most guys looking for someone on this site or sites like this (although this is the best site ever invented... for any admin reading this. lol). I personally get more than enough sex at home and still very interested in my wife. I suppose I might be an asshole, but I am also always looking for something more and different. Its not just sex, but a great conversation with a person who can keep up with the topic (sex or not), a lunch/coffee partner, ok and maybe sex can fit in there as well. Not all guys, more importantly not all married guys, are shallow people looking for a hook up and that's it. I know that I personally would like to get to know her first to make sure she is what I am looking for, not crazy and will not give me anything that I can bring home to share with my wife and cannot give back.
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11:36 am Wednesday, 7th December, 2016
more often than not, its the lack of sex! |
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9:17 am Friday, 8th March, 2019
I can relate to what you are saying. But it is lack of sex. In my case, It is lack of innovative and animalistic sex. |
