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What is necessary to get the party begin

5:55 pm Tuesday, 22nd November, 2016

Is it mandatory to show the cunt and cock to attract the like minded couple or does the seduction begin from the mind and eyes. Sometimes we feel that people are showing their private parts unnecessarily where it is not required.



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2:03 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

It's not for attraction its for Verifaction that we had good cock and one reason after cam voice Verifaction if both meets then u come to know he had a bad cock wat u guys doo, , , , 

2:04 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

Totally agree it's more about mental seduction culminating into sex at later point 

3:49 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

of course there is no need to display sometimes what we feel like disgusting pictures. If there is a good connection of mind that comes through interaction with other cpl that is more than enough to feed your libido. 

4:55 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

nice

6:56 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

Without good cock u cont make it good sex.orgasm made by cock is a man thing. 

7:57 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

its all in the mind.. seduce a mind to have the body 

9:07 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

Tesco Saintsbury's and mas y mas seem to do well advertising what's on offer so why not do it on here lol

10:04 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

I think the point of a site like this is all about open expression of sexuality..in all its forms(within reason!)so everybody needs different things ... seems fair not to judge anyone on here for they way they want to interact....cover your eyes!! hehehe

10:06 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

No need to show if anybody want to see just meet and see

10:21 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

You are absolutely right. I am also unable to understand this mindset.

10:28 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

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10:52 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

not necessary to expose pvt parts in profile, but it make immediate attention of the viewers

11:01 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

@santhsa2014 a good cock doesn't guarantee a good sex or orgasm. And what about the orgasm of mind.

11:12 am Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

@mmexplore :- sir, we are not here to judge anybody and not at being judgemental. Since we are new here we are trying to learn the art of being here. this is just because of our curiosity and to gain the knowledge of this society. lolzzz

1:20 pm Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

Yes you are right. but see all fingers are not same. even few people want to listen nasty talks about themselves. this may be one of the reason to put pics of private  parts. 

2:48 pm Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

You are absolutely right Sundance70, sensuality, erotica, sexuality
actually is starts between the ears, and only then reaches down 🙂 But
it is also true that some people even before it starts in the mind want
to see the "stuff", and so we have to keep a couple of pics of that at
least. But you are totally right when you say that a good cock doesn't
guarantee a good performance,nor do good boobs or a round ass guarantee
that a woman will be a tigress in bed. So all in all you are right, but
then like I said, we do need to put up a couple of pics maybe too for
some people 🙂

2:49 pm Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

You are absolutely right Sundance70, sensuality, erotica, sexuality
actually starts between the ears, and only then reaches down 🙂 But
it is also true that some people even before it starts in the mind want
to see the "stuff", and so we have to keep a couple of pics of that at
least. But you are totally right when you say that a good cock doesn't
guarantee a good performance,nor do good boobs or a round ass guarantee
that a woman will be a tigress in bed. So all in all you are right, but
then like I said, we do need to put up a couple of pics maybe too for
some people 🙂

3:31 pm Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

Problem is that this is an adult hookup website and we as Indian associate sex with hookups and in such sex deprived nation we are ready to pay anything for it

4:04 pm Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

Seduction begins with eyes, mind, feelings...rest happens with the flow

5:05 pm Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

@Mr. FurTCup As we have said before, we are not here to judge anybody and nor you are, and we believe nothing is wrong as far as one is comfortable. we just asked whether cocks and cunts pics is required to draw the attention ? We will do what we feel comfortable and you'll do as per your comforts. you can take this as you wish....
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6:54 pm Wednesday, 23rd November, 2016

Nice thought

12:53 am Thursday, 24th November, 2016

They  say sex is in the mind and what u see is what feeds it and then there is a socially conservative world of ours where people would avoid getting seen by faces and maybe their wild sides like to show the censored extentions that they don't show in the normal world or life otherwise it's not only about advertising urself here it has more to do with some dark excitement that it gives u too 

3:55 am Thursday, 24th November, 2016

Well personally for us, we believe that sex is 90 % mental and ten percent physical, Were here because sex is an outlet for us to express ourselves with people of like minds... who are not tabooed or inhibited by showing skin or private parts. 
I hear the general concensus thus far though, but if im not physically sexually attracted to you...its not gonna happen for us, if you do not take care of your body ...its not gonna happen for us, if you speak well, have a nice personality and your appearance is not in sync with our fantasy, its not gonna happen for us !! So truth be told by us, alot is dependent on seeing the other couple .... if the adrenalin dont start visually ...its gonna require too much alcohol to get it going mentally, lol.

11:27 am Thursday, 24th November, 2016

we fully agree with you folks!
1) Swing is not having just sex but it is respecting women not as as object but as a Goddess of love .2) Swing is not the size of Dick but the size of mind, intellect, humanity which one shares with another.3) Swing is not casual meet and greet like animals but to interact, learn and teach .4)Swing is not just privacy, secrecy and safety but love, recognition and enlightenment .5)Swing is just not a 'nite -out" but an experience to overcome senses .6)Swing is not just selfish acts but "charitable" to give rather than first take

1:11 pm Thursday, 24th November, 2016

Agree - it's ridiculous!

1:17 pm Thursday, 24th November, 2016

agreed its not that necessery...🤓

1:53 pm Thursday, 24th November, 2016

Sex is not funking    it's foreplay romance and yes for some time everyone need to be nude but not always women are more beautiful when they are dressed 

7:17 pm Thursday, 24th November, 2016

40+ should definitely show what they got.. Some may freak out.. So better they freak out at pics stage than in real.. 😉 

7:19 pm Thursday, 24th November, 2016

Btw people swing for fun.. Not for extraordinary stretch marks or jumbo cunts.. 

2:21 am Friday, 25th November, 2016

Hey

2:43 pm Friday, 25th November, 2016

Yha u r true... I support ur thought... 

10:46 am Saturday, 26th November, 2016

Nice Statement. Eroticsm is in Mind &you had guts to say. abhi

11:37 am Saturday, 26th November, 2016

1) Swing is not having just sex but it is respecting women not as as object but as a Goddess of love .
2) Swing is not the size of Dick but the size of mind, intellect, humanity which one shares with another.
3) Swing is not casual meet and greet like animals but to interact, learn and teach .
4)Swing is not just privacy, secrecy and safety but love, recognition and enlightenment .
5)Swing is just not a 'nite -out" but an experience to overcome senses .
6)Swing is not just selfish acts but "charitable" to give rather than first take.

5:38 pm Saturday, 26th November, 2016

noo never ,,if hearts & mind feel connected ,,all seems gud & worthy ..

6:04 am Sunday, 27th November, 2016

You have point...... 

7:15 am Saturday, 3rd December, 2016

i like what u said if u wanna more than mere sex do mail me

7:17 am Saturday, 3rd December, 2016

love the city of urs do mail

10:56 am Saturday, 3rd December, 2016

Hi

2:39 pm Sunday, 4th December, 2016

We truly agree with you. But simply put it depends on how free other folks are.

5:15 pm Friday, 6th January, 2017

I think it not mandatory but some couples want as it is a matter of reliability for them otherwise they will think your profile is fake if your profile  have no such type of photos.......and in another point of view, this site is also giving a platform for leading their life in a different way rather than normal mode....

5:17 pm Friday, 6th January, 2017

so they want to express themselves by these photos....

11:36 am Saturday, 28th January, 2017

@Cabuyo: three cheers to you. It depends upon each individual. We are here to explore the difference and seduction not just sex. Unfortunately we have different views but isn't it charming to know different views and thoughts.

12:24 pm Monday, 30th January, 2017

The best pleasure is when you engage all your senses as well as your mind. That brings you closer to full body orgasms. And that's where the real pleasure is.

9:35 pm Tuesday, 7th February, 2017

Showing stuff is only for the time being ,doesn't create much of a impact ,but genuinely something is connected within the two ,things happening are beyond imagination. 

8:54 am Sunday, 5th March, 2017

there are 2 type people in this circle as following.
type 1 - they need trusted and honest people instead of the most hot ( this people are not interested in size of pole or hole , not interested in pics too much

type 2 - they do not need trusted and honest people. they need only  most hot people ( this people are always interested in size of pole or hole , ask alwaus  pics too much

12:07 pm Saturday, 18th March, 2017

it just me !!!!???  yar how can you do party without me  aww..awww...aw..😂

12:48 pm Friday, 7th July, 2017

Very well said

7:19 pm Friday, 13th October, 2017

the seduction begin from the mind and eyes 🙂 very true......because most often men get aoursed for females wearing decent clothing.....so the devil is in mind and eyes 🙂

8:38 am Friday, 23rd March, 2018

Yes I support 

8:41 am Tuesday, 27th March, 2018

A point well made. Unfortunately, a number(majority) of profiles here, do not know what it is and how to approach the opposite sex or couples or a group, so my belief is you are being to harsh on these folks.
We for one are very anti picture as we feel its a complete disrespect to ourselves and our partners. This is a good meeting ground to express our intention and expectation. Messaging and chat are options, once we zero in on a profile liked. There after it is up to the parties to take it forward and how it proceeds is up to the individuals concerned.
We believe its okay to say thank you, but no thank you ! We are fine with someone or persons not having a chemistry with us, unfortunately its not so with most profiles here. 
Another point is the need to film "the action" and the status of the partner, instead of living the experience and pleasure and the titillation of mind.
Just my 2 pence rambling !!! 🙂

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