As a busy couple – we rely on our schedule to provide the framework for great connection and sex. Instead of scheduling time for sex we thought that best thing is to schedule time for things that turns us on.
In committed and loving (or liking) relationships you have to do things you don’t want to. have to hang out with your partner’s weird friends. You have to go to movies that you think are stupid. You have to do whatever. Suck it up. You also have to have sex sometimes when you aren’t feeling “in the mood”. Here’s the beautiful thing about “the mood” – it usually kicks in right after foreplay. So start sex and if you’re really not feeling it – you can always tap out if it really isn’t working. More likely – you’ll feel pretty good and de-stressed and finish strong.Sex comes before “the mood”.
