Part 1 of 3: Looking in the Right Places
1. Look for guys who are going out for the night.
This is one of the easiest ways to meet men, but also one of the trickiest. Men who are out on the town may not be looking for a relationship; they may just be looking to hook up. Don't let that stop you from talking with them, but just understand that this might be the case.:
* At a bar. Talking is key here. There's probably not any dancing happening, so you'll have to impress him with your conversion. If the talk is going well, ask him to buy you a drink. Play pool, feed the jukebox, be merry.
* At a club. Make eye contact from afar to gauge his interest. See if he comes up to you. If he doesn't, try dancing with him. Be careful not to come on too strong, but don't be too subtle either.
* At a party. Don't fixate all your attention on him. There's time for flirting here. Engage any friends he's with, and get your friends to participate in the conversation. Because of the social situation,
