Unattached Males on this site must number a million and a dozen; and it can feel quite difficult having your voice heard or standing out.
I have read many articles where discouraged males clearly express their frustration at the lack of "play time".I however have a different view; the approach here is to try and make friends. The idea is not to try too hard because people can see through pretense...
In my view it is easier to be invited to play if others find you friendly and easy to get along with.
So I now have to put my own theory to the test....let's see if my prescription would work...lol.
