Well this is it a middle aged newbie never written a blog before but thought I would write this one manly because it mite by fun, interesting and even helpfully to someone.
At 41 I find my self in a unusual situation I have partner who I am happy with but after illness and surgery sex is gone we have tried but she doesn't get any thing from it so after 5 years nothing happens anymore. So after much heart ache and discussion we have agreed that I should come on here. This blog will be kind of diary of my adventures (if I have any) will keep you posted.
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