Well, it has to be said that communication is certainly the key to unlocking the world.
For ourselves, we have been communicating very openly as a couple on (for us) the new subject of a more open lifestyle, namely exploring swinging.
Having one of us bringing up the subject was something that could have been met with disdain, instead it was met with curiosity and then a few inner feelings of trepidation. Would it mean we would not love each other?
So, after discussing this and understanding the pleasure both of us would gain in this we decided to set up our profile and get to know others.
We have a clear understanding of what we would and would not do, and as can be appreciated this has expanded the more we have discussed and realised that there is nothing wrong in involving others in our sexual play, in fact relishing in the thought of exploring with others. Without going into graphic details right now we see the merits of involving others in giving pleasure to each other
