my partner of 15 years health took a turn for worst 3 years ago that is saying i have had no sex for 3 years.. but sadly life goes on ..ideally im looking for someone to have regular sex with.. no never been dominated by a woman nor tried bdsm.. but i realise im missing out on a lot and im now open to a lot of things... i would love to try try both. I once surrendered my self and ended up doing things ive never done begore nor thought i would like.