Hi people
I don’t view myself as swinger I have a lot of experience of sex and of playing with others to spice up a shared dynamic from time to time .
I have come onto here from the D/s BDSM scene so causal meets are a bit alien to me ,so are straight lets get down to the sex meets .
you see I am used to socialising with a s over several social meets building trust as we discussed play styles and needs frankly with each other before we take things to the bedroom .
I'm used to long term arrangements as I find the sex improves as the trust improves and bonds of friendship are formed . which makes meeting for sex on the first meet a alien way of thinking because of how my sexuality is normally satisfied .
But it has been brought to my attention that I maybe missing a trick here so to speak by that I mean .
Someone has said to me that there maybe couples out there where the wife's would love to be played with by a experienced D and husbands who would love to watch a exper