Over the years I've had plenty of vanilla sex ... And I've come to realise that it's a shared experience in several ways, obviously there is the physical aspect which is always nice but as I've gotten older I've come to apreciate the psycological side of sex.
This in turn has helped me develop an interest in all sorts of kinky things and fetishes. The main one for me is an appreciation of attractive smoking women (a BIG turn on for me, odd too as a non smoker). Also The kinker aspects comes into play with varous roll play situations I've begun to fantasize about.
Form a pure kink point of view I like too many things to list here and I'll pretty much try anything once or twice to get a feel for it. The important thing lately tho' is mind set.... The sharing of a fantasy (especially in a real roll play situation) is just mind blowing, especially if my partner is getting off on it too.
