Why is it that this site, and the others like it I've tried, seem to be littered with people who fail to understand the basic concept of communication? It should normally be a 2-way process. If someone messages you and you read it, which this site advises people of, then the courteous thing to do is to reply, even if only to tell the other person that you're not interested. FFS this site even gives you an option to click a button to decline politely. I will never understand the rudeness of people who choose simply to ignore a message...pure bad manners!! There are many blogs on this site also that appear to lament the quantity of time-wasting men on here. Perhaps the people concerned simply haven't contacted the right men, and also fail to understand that men aren't the only sex to be littered with time-wasters. Rant over.